..wat do you need in life.........

Many aa times we are asked what is that we want in life,in the spur of moment are mind wander to aa distant land ,a land of endless dreams...........there are so many things we want in life but how many of them we actually NEED we ourself don't know.....it has been like this- 'the more you have ,the better it is ',how strange??? why u want more if little is what will actually matter at the end of the day........ i don't know what others want but iam sure of what i want and what i need in life........................
,to begin with I WANT TO BE HAPPY, and trust me its not a big deal, happiness doesn't cost much, little things can make u happy you don't need to be rich to be happy.........you dont need to be PERFECT to be happy........ wats perfection actually? to me perfection IS ALL ABOUT RESPECTING THE IMPERFECTION IN YOU.......... yes its about accepting ourself and accepting the fact that no matter how hard you try you wont and cant satisfy the expectations of people around you..........i don't even see point in living life on terms of others,it doesn't mean i do'nt care about them it just mean i want to care for them by BEING 'ME' AND not by what they want me to be... i will change if i feel i should and not because some one else doesn't like the way iam.......... everyone is different and we need to respect the individuality and uniqueness of evryone....... .. i have learnt the less you expect the more happy you are because when you expect your mind is continuously thinking of the moment which is not there and so u forget to relish the present moment............... ironic isn't it.....? to me happiness means having a family, having my loved ones around me ,thats precious to me.........MONEY is important but not THEE MOST IMPORTANT thing,it matters to a certain extend but beyond that it doesn't hold any value in my life, money cant buy me true love and peace of mind..................................... i want to have a home not a house and homes are built with love and affection and not by bricks and walls.............to me success is not about reaching the top most position, to me success is living my life with the people i love and value,even if it means giving up materialistic stuff or correctly calling it as materialistic success ( success= suck in excess : ) ) ...thats how i feel ,iam not saying others are wrong, but that doesnt give me a reason to agree to how they feel..................i respect their vision of life but i dont give them any right to raise fingers on how i feel about life and how i perceive happiness........................... at the end of the day i have my peace of mind and thats more than enough...............................