...WhY IS dAT We.................

Why is that when it comes to giving advice , whenever we got to show someone the direction we always have something or the other to say even wen what all we say we won't ever do that ourselves........ why is that we ourselves doubt and find it difficult to follow wat we tell the world around................why???

It goes back to the time wen i was studying "Merchant of venice", there was a very beautiful saying which was true even then and even now - " Its always easy to preach but its difficult to follow ones own preachings"............ how true.........i think it happens because in the heart of our heart we like and may be believe wat we say but that belief is not enough to give us courage to do and actually do what we keep telling the whole world ... but when we preach others we find the satisfaction that there is this person who can reflect our beliefs because we never could implement them for ourself...................... now that we found someone we dont want to lose this chance................... reflection is what we wanted to see in others of our beliefs , how strange.......all our life we wanted to find someone who could do exactly what we wanted to do ourself , but then why not do that ourself ??????? wat is that restricts us from that , why do we fear , why dont we have enough strength , why we get short of courage?? why ??

May be because wen it comes to preaching we don't analyze the implications , there are many factors that we have kept constant wen we have analzed... those preachings are the creation of the illusion we love , the dream world we wanted would exist , its wat we always wanted to do , and do it so badly that wen we couldnt gather enough strength to do it ourselves we wanted others to do it............ but if we pause for a moment, slow down and relax for a moment we would realize " wats the point of having that belief which can't motivate us enough ,to actually execute it"... to me its as incomplete as the night without stars , a river with no water , a forest with no trees , a song without words and a dream with no hope............................its as incomplete as it can get............ we love the idea of living the life we never lived but wat have we done to really live it by changing how we have been living till now....why dont we juss reach out to our beliefs without needing anyone else.....