.....what happens wen.............

..........What happens when the one you love leaves and leaves you forever, Iam sure the very thought might have given you shivers by now & YOU HAVE EVERY REASON TO FEEL THIS ........how can life one day just take away the person we love and love so much...we often feel being cheated and defeated by life, we just cant accept that something like that has happened to us ,may be because we are scared to imagine our life without them...it has never been easy and will never be easy to move on loosing someone soo dear during the journey of life..........no matter how much you cry,no matter how much you beg but things and people lost on the way will never be back again............all that remains with us are memories of past........... life has to move on and we learn to live without all that we are left with when we realise that even that will be lost one day.....death is the ultimate truth, we might be able to fight against anything and everything but we can never win over death, when we understand this life becomes easy because now the death doesn't scare us any longer as we have accepted it as a part of our whole cycle of existence and as a part of whole process............this acceptance helps us to live without fear & helps us to live life in peace with ourself..........nobody leaves us because love never dies........it remains in the memories ,remains in our mind clear as if its a thing of yesterday..................its that love only that gives us the strength that we move on with life, isn't it........ the pain will be there but with time it will start fading away and won't hurt us that much.....................

being in love with you.................

.....................................Being in love with you is so much fun, its like living & feeling every emotion,it has been so wonderful,it has been the best so far......i have changed as a person, and changed for good......your love has given me more then i could have ever asked for ,the little ways you care,the simple words you say has touched my soul.....your love is my power ,my strength and the assurance of the fact that i will be loved and loved endlessly by you....no matter how crazy i go but you are there to love me, you are there to understand, you are there to share my pain as much as you want to share my happiness.......i know wat perfect love is and i know its exactly wat we share.........i have been stupid many times but even then you have had all the patience in the world to listen and bear me.........even if i go on a search i know i will never be able to find somebody who can love me the way you do...your love is so pure,its so beautiful and not bounded by conditions.........you have loved me for who iam, as iam and this feeling of acceptance is so very close to my heart........................ if i have YOU in my life therez nothing that i will ever want , for you are the ONE i ever wanted................being in your arms i forget all the worries of life for i know you are there to protect and take care of me, i know you are there just for me.............i always wanted to rise in love for a man and you are my MAN.................

..wat do you need in life.........

Many aa times we are asked what is that we want in life,in the spur of moment are mind wander to aa distant land ,a land of endless dreams...........there are so many things we want in life but how many of them we actually NEED we ourself don't know.....it has been like this- 'the more you have ,the better it is ',how strange??? why u want more if little is what will actually matter at the end of the day........ i don't know what others want but iam sure of what i want and what i need in life........................
,to begin with I WANT TO BE HAPPY, and trust me its not a big deal, happiness doesn't cost much, little things can make u happy you don't need to be rich to be happy.........you dont need to be PERFECT to be happy........ wats perfection actually? to me perfection IS ALL ABOUT RESPECTING THE IMPERFECTION IN YOU.......... yes its about accepting ourself and accepting the fact that no matter how hard you try you wont and cant satisfy the expectations of people around you..........i don't even see point in living life on terms of others,it doesn't mean i do'nt care about them it just mean i want to care for them by BEING 'ME' AND not by what they want me to be... i will change if i feel i should and not because some one else doesn't like the way iam.......... everyone is different and we need to respect the individuality and uniqueness of evryone....... .. i have learnt the less you expect the more happy you are because when you expect your mind is continuously thinking of the moment which is not there and so u forget to relish the present moment............... ironic isn't it.....? to me happiness means having a family, having my loved ones around me ,thats precious to me.........MONEY is important but not THEE MOST IMPORTANT thing,it matters to a certain extend but beyond that it doesn't hold any value in my life, money cant buy me true love and peace of mind..................................... i want to have a home not a house and homes are built with love and affection and not by bricks and walls.............to me success is not about reaching the top most position, to me success is living my life with the people i love and value,even if it means giving up materialistic stuff or correctly calling it as materialistic success ( success= suck in excess : ) ) ...thats how i feel ,iam not saying others are wrong, but that doesnt give me a reason to agree to how they feel..................i respect their vision of life but i dont give them any right to raise fingers on how i feel about life and how i perceive happiness........................... at the end of the day i have my peace of mind and thats more than enough...............................

......2009 is finaly 'IN'...........

So 2009 is finaly 'in' and 2008 out for ever n always.....LOOKING BACK AT 2008 there are memories filled with all the varied emotions......some itching till today n some sweet like da old wine ,just getting better and better with time....years have been passing n we are getting older with each day but still we celebrate and welcome each year with open arms...may in the hope that things will get better this time......hasnt the HOPE cheated us so many times ,havent our dreams just broken in front of our eyes so many times yet we BELIEVE.....how ironic........ when things doesnt turn the way we want we feel its better to give the control to something else 'our mind' and HOPE which MAKES THINGS BETTER FOR THAT MOMENT OF TIME............and i dont see therez any harm in that,if something kan help u to be sane wen everything else is making you inane then why not : )

well but its not always that we will be dissappointed by life ,its just that we just remember the bad that happens to us but we dont count the good that happens...its a human nature...if u look on your life in 2008 iam sure the life would have given you more than wat it has taken yet we crib n complain......we always want to be satisfied and we forget satisfaction is all in your perception of life..its a relative term n if you want to be content you need to draw a line where it ends, if there is no stopping then you can and will never be satisfied....... its all in the mind....so play with mind rather your mind playing on you......think!!!!!!!!!!!!